Archive for January, 2008

How to Impress Any Man

Monday, January 28th, 2008

Men are easier to impress than women, right? Sometimes.

Things You’ll Need

Breath Fresheners

Perfume

Remember that men like women with confidence. If you like who you are, they’ll like who you are.

Practice being independent. It takes a lot of the pressure off of men to know they don’t have to take care of you.

Don’t play dumb. If that’s what it takes to impress a certain man, do you really want him?

Dress well. Wear whatever you have on with your own style. Guys like those black seamed stockings and flashy high heels, sure, but you’ll be more fun if you’re comfortable.

Don’t worry if you don’t look like a supermodel. After all, you don’t demand that the men in your life all look like movie stars, right? There are more important things. Give guys credit for knowing that.

Be engaging. A woman who is sitting with a bunch of men is intriguing. Those guys are sitting with her for a reason. Other men will want to know what it is.

Notice what a man is wearing and compliment him. Men often go to a lot of trouble to look good, but rarely get as many compliments as women do.

Don’t drink too much. Your inhibitions will be lowered and you might say or do things you wouldn’t normally do.

Be appreciative. Say thanks when it’s appropriate. Smile when you say it. It means a lot.

Ask the man about his work, his hobbies, his interests. Listen carefully and ask questions.

Find out what he’s interested in. If you can hold your own in a discussion on baseball, stock cars or fishing, you’re in.

Be relaxed and easy to get along with. The more comfortable you are, the more comfortable the people around you are. You might not be the only one who’s nervous.

Tips & Warnings

While you’re busy impressing your man, don’t forget to take the time to make sure he’s worth impressing. It’s a two-way street - you should both impress each other.

How to Impress a Man You Like

Monday, January 28th, 2008

Many women wonder why some guy will date them and then act fed up in a short period. The secret is in the invisible signals you are sending to him. Too much emotion, too much excitement can chase him away. To keep a man, you must employ good tactics without showing your efforts to attract him. Be beautiful and mysterious; that’s how every romantic story starts.

First impressions are very important. You must be everything he wants on your first date: beautiful, charming, positive, shining and mysterious. Focus on the words charming and mysterious. You must radiate this. Place these words in your mind and repeat them all the way through your date.

The most important thing is to listen to him. You will not impress him by speaking. Be gentle but more silent. Listen when he is speaking to you. Try to learn more about him. Ask questions and respond. Don’t try to share your impressions. If you talk too much, he may start thinking you are too transparent.

Don’t let him too close to you. He may touch you gently; you may even let him kiss you. That’s it. Let him go home and think about the time he spent with you. Let him think about your next date. Let him guess what kind of person you are.

Delay the moment of your intimacy as long as possible. Don’t delay it like years, but waiting will make this moment of intimacy a more exciting experience, one that you will remember for all your life. But the goal is to make him to remember it. He will not pay too much attention if this happens too soon after you started dating.

Tips & Warnings

Always look sexy and make him feel you are attracted to him with a gentle touch, but never pass the limit of the excitement. Let him feel the desire in the air, but make sure he keeps wondering whether you really want to be with him.

Never talk too much, just say what is really important. Limit the small talk. Value your words, and he will value your opinion more.

How to Be a Madam

Monday, January 28th, 2008

The “oldest profession in the world” is more organized than it used to be. Business plans, spreadsheets and P & L statements means prostitution has entered a new era. It’s not quite legitimate business (in most states), but it sure looks like one. If you like sex and have a good business sense, you might be well-suited to a life as a madam.

Spend some time as a one-woman operation. Discreetly step out with a few high-profile clients. Escort them to the theater, pricey restaurants and hotels with 800-thread count sheets. Research is invaluable. It informs your price scale and helps you figure out what clients like from a high-end escort service.

Hire your staff. You must have enough women on staff to handle the demand. Make sure there is someone to fulfill every desire—every hair and eye color, body type and as many ethnicities as possible should be represented. Most of your clients will choose escorts based on their looks.

Build your clientele. Put ads in Hollywood trade papers to reach out to celebrities who have been exposed as fans of escort services. Chances are they haven’t learned their lesson. If you’re not fond of the West Coast, set up shop in Washington, D.C. Politicians away from their families and constituents could turn into some of your best clients.

Reap the rewards of a successful business. Once you have built your enterprise, you can remove yourself from the day-to-day operations. Sit in the front office and watch the money pour in. Advertise by word-of-mouth and fly under the radar. Live lavishly, but discreetly. You don’t want to get noticed by the IRS, especially if you conduct business anywhere other than Nevada, where prostitution is legal.

Get arrested for tax-evasion and racketeering. Some law enforcement and governmental agencies won’t appreciate your flair for running a successful business. Wear a Chanel suit to your arraignment, but threaten to sell your list of clients to pay for your defense. Post bail and expose your clients one-by-one, beginning with the most famous. Watch their tearful apologies on television.

Accept a plea bargain that shuts down your business and lands you in prison for 18 months.

Sign a book and movie deals as soon as you get out of jail. Play your cards right, and live comfortably on the proceeds. Enjoy the income from your time as a madam.

How to Promote an Escort Service

Monday, January 28th, 2008

Promoting an escort service is no easy task. The very nature of the industry calls for discretion, but to promote the business, people need to be aware of it. Using some tried and tested techniques will need additional thought and restraint to stay within the law while ensuring that your promotional drive is a success.

Check state laws before you begin any type of promotion. Laws governing the publicizing of escort services vary from state to state depending on how legitimate or legal the law considers you. Seek legal advice if you are not familiar with the restrictions and legalities.

Make a realistic budget that will cover all your promotional materials. Your budget will determine the quality and quantity of materials as well as the range of your promotion.

Create a web page with an easy to remember address. Use many color photos and ensure that your page is easy to use and navigate. If you have no experience with web design, hire a professional designer and make sure that your site is compliant.

Publicize your business by having your service listed in local phone books and specialized industry web pages. (See resources for listings). Contact these directly to include your web link or service contact information.

Place adverts in adult-only arenas such as liquor stores, special interest magazines or adult membership groups. Classifieds in local newspapers and area publications may also permit you to advertise but will need to be carefully worded.

Tips & Warnings

Depending on your budget, you can hire a promotional company to do the hard work.

Sponsoring an award for an industry related competition will give your service additional exposure.

Network with established clients and offer incentives for additional business.

Get a legal expert to check over all material before committing to printing.

How To Open An Escorts Service

Monday, January 28th, 2008

An escort service doesn’t have to portray sleaze and sex all the time. It’s merely a company that provides companionship on those days when people don’t want their friends or family wondering if they’re ever going to find that special someone. An escort service can help silence those pesky family members that are unable to keep their thoughts to themselves. Follow these steps to open an escort service.

Apply for a business license to open your escort service. This can be done through local government agencies. You will need to provide specific details regarding the type of business you want to open. Depending on the location of the business there may be zoning laws you need to abide by.

Hire good looking men and women of various ages. Be sure they are all of legal age so you don’t get in trouble with the law. Not every person is going to want the same type of person on their arm for the evening so a variety to choose from is helpful.

Order business cards to be handed out to friends and other coworkers. The escorts can also hand out your business cards to their friends and family. This will let the public know that your escort service is open for business and how to reach you or the office.

Place an ad in the local yellow pages. You must advertise the escort service to help people know you exist. Some yellow page companies also have Internet advertisements as well. You will be able to get additional business from a search engine too.

Schedule your escorts to go on their first set of dates. Be sure that the customer is aware of any rules you and the escort have set. Put these rules in writing and have the customer sign, acknowledging them. This will protect you and your escort. Don’t forget to collect payment for services rendered. A deposit can be placed ahead of time with the remainder due at the end of the date.

Tips & Warnings

You can also advertise your escort service online at places like escortgal.com, craigslist or MySpace.

How to Become an Escort

Monday, January 28th, 2008

Introduction

An escort used to be known as a courtesan. At no time was she ever a **** or a prostitute. Women most commonly enter the escort business for money, while some do it for the opportunities. The freedom of schedule is also a draw to embarking on a career as an escort.

* Decide if this is the career you want. It will require commitment and a completely free schedule.

* Prepare yourself for the high quality customer service your career as an escort will demand. Your goal will be to please and satisfy every customer.

*Investigate the pros and cons of working independently or for an escort agency. Protection and client screening is not negotiable.

* Get familiar with other girls in your trade as an escort. Let them know you aren’t interested in competition–just friendship.

*Select where and how you want to advertise your services. Clients have to know you are out there in order to book an appointment.

*Choose just how much of yourself you want to sell. There are escorts who do not offer sexual favors. Decide which route you want to go.

*Research never hurts. Ask your client details about the date he has planned for you. Make sure the place is legitimate and that you feel safe there.

Tips & Warnings

  • Remember the customer is almost always right.
  • Learn how to physically defend yourself.
  • Always trust your instincts–if it doesn’t feel right, leave where you are immediately.
  • Your life could depend on the people you trust with your where-a-bouts. Make sure they are trustworthy.
  • HOOKING UP! - WHAT YOU NEED TO KNOW

    Sunday, January 27th, 2008

    Thanks BigDoggie.net

    Make your first contact memorable. Be concise, honest, friendly and open. If you just want info (shopping?) be honest. If you want to schedule an appointment, suggest best time for you (don’t say “How about some time next week?”) Mention fee if you don’t already know, but don’t ask specific questions about it. Don’t be graphic or specific-EVER.Tell her a little bit about yourself. Tell her where you heard about her. Don’t waste her time–she gets plenty of inquiries, make yours stand out. Talking on the phone or via e-mail gives you a great idea what’s she going to be like in person. If she’s friendly and nice, she will be in person. Its also your chance to start building her perception of you. Be respectful. These girls are PEOPLE. Treat them like you would a girlfriend or lover and they will respond positively. It sounds simple, but most guys are pushy and rude.Now that you’ve made a good first impression, carry it through to the appointment. Show up! Be on time! Be freshly showered and presentable. Not too much “cheap” cologne, please. Be careful of doing anything that would scare her or cause her to be suspicious. Make a great in-person first impression!Be confident and relaxed. Act like you’ve done this before. Greet her cordially. Give her a handshake (or, even better, a short non-sexual hug!) and smile and look her in the eye. Be nice–it costs no more and it will pay off in better dividends when it counts.

    Place the agreed upon fee on a dresser or nightstand. Pre-counted and in a plain white envelope is always a nice touch. Don’t seal the envelope. You may even hand it directly to her if it feels comfortable or if she extends her hand–but DO NOT SAY ANYTHING. Nothing. Just hand it over in payment for her time. Don’t argue, ask for explanations, try to bargain, or otherwise ruin the mood at this point. Have a little trust and faith, you will be rewarded!

    She will likely ask you if you would “…like to get comfortable?” This is your cue to disrobe completely. She will likely go into the bathroom, wait a few minutes and then return to the room expecting to see you naked on the bed. Make small talk and get to know each other for a few minutes. Don’t be grabbing and making crude remarks. Everything in its time…

    Talk to her–simple but very, very effective. Talk about her–compliment her attire, her hairstyle, her perfume. Whatever, but be honest–phoniness shows up quickly. If she asks about you be open and honest–it shows. Women like to relax and have a good time, just like you. Talking during the session relaxes everyone and makes it more enjoyable for all. Don’t be pushy or grabby. Let her guide the session at her pace. You would be surprised at the improvement in service you’ll get.

    After you get to know each other a bit, you may be getting a little more cozy with each other. Let it progess on its own rhythym. She is aware of the time and will make sure you get your business done in the alloted time. At this time, she may ask “What do you like?” This is your cue to explain in more detail what you like and what you’d like to get from the session. If you encounter a “No!” response, then just don’t break stride and be sure that you respect her guidelines. If its really, really important to you then you might try begging just a little. Above all, accept her limits, treat her with respect and caring, and you will have a good session anyway.

    Be gentle and considerate. Women operate on a much more sensitive level than men to. Spend a little time on foreplay. Tell her when it feels good. Ask he if what you are doing feels good or if what you are geting ready to do is OK. Communicate and ask when you are ready to move on to the next plateau or position.

    If the service was excellent and the company was superb, think about leaving a small tip to express your gratitude. Especially, if you are thinking of seeing her again. Depending on the length of the visit, a token tip of anywhere from $20 to $100 would surely be appreciated–figure this into your budget for the evening. I do know that this final step has served me very, very well.

    Bonus Tip. The final thought here is to use common sense and civility at all times. The above points are mostly just that. Treat the girl as you would like to be treated–with respect, kindness, caring, and genuine sensitive feelings.

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